Divorce or No Divorce
When a marriage is in crisis a person is most often overwhelmed with emotions and mind racing; Should I stay. Should I go? What about the kids? What about the money? What will people say? Am I imagining this? etc, etc. This always makes is very difficult to sort out what is clouded by emotion, what is reality, and what is anger or obsession to the spouse.  Read more.

Project Discovery -When marriage is in crisis..Making informed decisions.

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A must read
for All PARENTS of Divorce....
• When divorce is imminent.
• Before announcing your divorce to the children.
• When you are contemplating a divorce.
• When a divorce has just occurred.
• When you want guidance to facilitate a healthy recovery for your children.
• When you want help to make the other parent understand that the children come first.
• When children will not accept the divorce.
• When the children remain angry or depressed.
• When you are planning scheduled visits.
• To empower you to develop great Parent-Child relationship's. Handbook

When the mind is in turmoil and panic it leads to poor decisions, or no decisions at all....it’s " let it fall where it may..." And where does it lead to? Quick exits out of marriages. Jumping into bed with a stranger to soothe the pain and guilt or hoping this someone will rescue you. Saying words you will regret for the rest of your life. No preparation made for the welfare of the kids. Hoarding of money.. Etc. Pain... Pain ...Pain. All completely unnecessary.

The alternative is to spend a week looking objectively at every corner that impacts your marriage. I have set up a program that coaches you through this discovery. It is broken down into bite size pieces so as not to overwhelm you. It puts you in charge to do objective questioning and to evaluate your own findings. It is not to sway you one way or the other. Yet it encourages you to be honest so you will arrive to a decision you will not regret later. 

With over two hundred pages of material for measuring the strengths and weaknesses of your marriage, you then have a good sense of if your marriage has the possibility to be enriched, revived and rebuilt or if the marriage is honestly a sham and that it is best for your own good health and sanity to bring the marriage to its final close. 

It is about making an informed decision and once you make your decision, what steps you will take next by taking action. It is not about wallowing in the pain or remaining in an unhealthy marriage that makes the entire family crumble in their self esteems. It is about preparing to end the marriage, how it will be handled, making arrangements for the children, etc. etc. Or it is about taking action to start rebuilding your marriage so that both of you can enjoy being very comfortable in it.