After many participants of  Program Recovery After Divorce 2003 told me they wished they had had some of the information within that program prior to getting married, as well as while the had been in marriage. Therefore, in 2005, I created The  Mighty Adult for people who want to get married  or want to enrich their present marriage or simply to enjoy their lives fully, in or out of marriage.  But what was still being requested was a  program specifically to  guide people, in marriage crisis, to an informed decision of should they stay or should they leave their marriage. Therefore Project Discovery was completed in early 2007

 

• Who is uncomfortable within their marriage and feel they can no longer stay in it. 
• Who's spouse has just announced they are leaving and want a divorce.
• Who's abuse is harming their children or mate.
• Who feels the abuse in the marriage is destroying him or her.
• Who can no longer control their abusive behaviors.
• Who feels they are no longer "in romantic love." 
• Who no longer have active sexual foreplay and intercourse within their marriage. 
• Who's marriage has been shredded because one chose to have emotional or physical intimacy outside of their marriage. 
• Who remains in the marriage but has already exited it emotionally, physically, or both.
• Who is presently separated and undecided to get back together or to end it permanently.
• Who senses that divorce is imminent.
• Or for anyone who wants to make their marriage even more comfortable by zooming in directly on the its areas of strengths and weaknesses.

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I wrote this discovery program after many requests for help
in making the decision 
to leave marriage or to stay in their marriages. 
People wanted to make sure the were making the right decision, a decision they would 
not regret the rest of their lives. 
Too many times, people who reach this stage of marriage crisis, are so overwhelmed with emotions 
and mind racing that it makes it difficult to sort out what is clouded by emotion, 
 what is reality, what is anger, what is fear, or what is obsession to the spouse....

Therefore, I decided to create a program that would help a person look 
into their marriage objectively, and in bite size pieces. 
They are put in charge of their discovery project, 
do objective questioning and evaluate their own findings. 
After over two hundred pages of information and 
measuring the strengths and weaknesses 
of their marriage, they have a good sense if their marriage
has the possibility to be enriched, revived, and rebuilt or 
if the marriage is honestly a sham and that it is best for their own good health and sanity 
to bring the marriage to its final close. 
Either way they reach an honest conclusion and feel okay about their 
chosen decision, free of guilt,
because they did the work to inform themselves, and now know the truth clearly.
From that point forward they move on with their lives into rejuvenating the marriage,
rebuilding the marriage, or taking steps for legal dissolution.

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When a person is free of guilt in their decisions and choices... they 
move forward in their lives without hesitation. 
They know the truth and they do what they have to do.

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You may be living and existing in a marriage yet not know its strengths, weaknesses or how 
you are innocently sabotaging what you want the most. 
Project Discovery is about information for a healthy marriage. 
You look at it and then look at your marriage to see how it compares to each topic. 
It is about dissecting it and observing it from an entirely different point of view than 
when you are knee deep living it everyday.
It is in the knowing of the real facts about your marriage that empowers you, as it is only 
with awareness that you can see where a change needs to occur. 
Even if it is only one party, you, that acquires this information, and you make the changes where you can, 
it has the power to transform the quality of your marriage.

Many people are very scared to do Project Discovery, because as a consequence 
of the marriage being in a precarious position, both partners self esteems most often has slipped very low. 
When your self esteem is low, you believe you are defective or not enough.... 
It causes you to think that looking at your role in the marriage may very well confirm 
what you are presently believing about your "self," rather than
actually looking at this discovery work as a tool that will give you the information
to increase and restore your "self, " and your happiness. 
As a result, you will have confidence in your decisions and it will fuel to take action,  thereby automatically 
increase your self esteem in the process. 
The longer a person stays in the turmoil of a marriage in crisis, the more ones self esteem goes down.
This program will have you restoring your genuine self esteem in least time possible.

Many are very scared to do Project Discovery, not only because of the level of their self esteem,
but also because their marriage means so much to them and 
they are afraid they will discover that they should put an end to it. 
And then they are scared of the unknown of divorce... being alone, having a broken family, what others will think... Whoa! Just because a marriage is dreadfully uncomfortable 
it does NOT mean it needs to end in divorce.
It can be rebuilt and made comfortable and be a great place to be in...but first 
you need to know exactly what is making it uncomfortable...And NO! It cannot 
be blamed only on one single thing. 
Tunnel vision may prevent you from seeing the reality, the problems, 
help you to remain in denial, and be an excuse 
to avoid  taking  responsibility....  but it does nothing 
to help you create the happiness you desire in your marriage.
This program is to empower you with awareness 
so that you can now strengthen the weak areas and 
appreciate the strong areas that are working in the marriage.
Without the gift of awareness how can you change what is detrimental or 
what is sabotaging your marriage?
If you already knew how you were sabotaging your own marriage, 
you would not be here reading this page, because you would know and you would have changed it. 
The reason I know about the blindness of self sabotage is because of my own life experiences. 
Not knowing how I was sabotaging  my own happiness was like walking around my life with a blindfold, doing the best I could with what I knew, but it was not enough. 
I had looked out at my world from an entirely different point of view. Same world.
And once I became aware, I was awakened to a whole different way 
of managing my life, without changing where I was planted in my life. 
Project Discovery has you looking at your marriage from different angles, so you can learn from it.

After I made Lifeline After Divorce Recovery Program available to the general public, I had many participants telling me how the information within it was like secrets being revealed about their marriage and themselves 
and how they wished they had known this information a long before their marriage became broken..So I have enclosed parts of these secrets and much more for your self discovery.

I guarantee that as soon as you have worked through the entire discovery project that you will feel you are much clearer in the decision you are ready to make. You will be taking charge of your life and you will  move forward into the rest of your life. You will not regret the time you took in doing your project of discovery.  If you have any questions, or need to talk about your situation you may contact me. ~ Louise Should your E-BooK require repair I guarantee to replace it promptly up to 56 days after purchase. I guarantee you that this Discovery Project will not disappoint you. Project Recovery is in an electronic, printable e-book. You download it to your computer.  To open  and read the e-book click on its icon on your desktop. When you want to unlock all the pages you purchase an Unlock  key using your credit card.  After payment you receive a  receipt of the transaction in your inbox and a contact email.  If your file should ever require repair, it is replaced promptly up to 56 Days  from date of purchase.  This ebook is also available on a CD and is mailed to you.You will require Windows 98 or higher. Click here for more information.

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Project Discovery is about you...not your spouse. 
It is about you looking at your marriage relationship through your own eyes and coming to
an honest decision about knowing that this marriage has possibility 
or that this marriage is already dead, 
or on its last leg and that it is better for you to stop nurturing it immediately.
It is not about off-the-cuff blaming, only what you or the outside world points to, or assumptions..
It is not about automatically reacting to a spouses immature or irresponsible behavior. 
It is not about reacting to protect your pride and ego, to save face or to get revenge. 

Project Discovery is about your good mental health, your good spiritual and physical health.
It is about making a good and informed decision for you 
and, as well, if you are a parent for what is best for your children. 

It is about taking responsibility for parenting your self. 
Shutting the influences of the world out. Putting aside the should's, the ifs, the bargaining, 
the belief that you know less than someone else about your own life, your love relationship, or what is best for you.
It is about thinking, not like an adult child, but as a mature adult. It is not about guilt, feeling guilty, or reacting from the standpoint of false guilt. It is not about making a decision based upon people pleasing, looking like the bad guy or a saint. It is not about trying to force your spouse into being the initiator of the divorce so she or he can look like the one who abandoned you and placing yourself into the victim role or saving face. It is not about being a martyr or a control freak. It is not about pleasing a "third party" who has nothing to do with the contract between you and your spouse.  It is not about making a decision based upon the lure of your lustful desires outside of your marriage. It is not about the behaviors of your strange in-laws or about making a decision strictly based upon the hate and anger you feel about your spouse. Project Discovery is about looking honestly at you, your relationship, and then 
making a wise and informed decision that is best for you.
It is about arriving at an informed decision and feeling certain of what you must do. 
And of course, this may mean you must start doing some serious work to rebuild your marriage 
or to have the guts to tell your spouse that you no longer want to be in marriage with him or her and
then doing the work of legal dissolution and emotional divorce.

Project Discovery is about taking charge of your life. 
- How you will take charge to create your happiness. - How you will encounter your life.
It is about putting effort in doing the emotional work to see with unbiased eyes
deep into your marriage. 
It is about having the courage to face the truth.
And the reward will be to arrive to a decision that you know is right for you 
and it will empower you to plunge into your marriage with renewed hope 
 or to take the steps necessary to dissolve your marriage.
No longer will you feel in limbo, no longer will you be sitting 
on the fence with one foot in the marriage and one foot out.... ready to run. 
You will either recommit and mean it,  or you will get honest with your partner.
 Your marriage will become more comfortable because you took the time to do 
your discovery work or you will know that you cannot make a marriage 
with only your efforts and input into it.

You may already know what your decision is, 
but you have arrived at this page....so it means you are conscientious and 
you want to make doubly sure or you want to check out your judgment 
or simply clear up a doubt.
For whatever reason you have arrived to this page.. It is that you are 
searching to increase happiness in your life..be it in enriching your marriage, making a decision in 
your present legal separation, finding the courage to speak up in your marriage, 
ask for what is required from your partner, or to give yourself the final push to end the marriage.

In doing the work you will be renewed in hope for a better tomorrow 
whether in this marriage or out of this marriage. 
Even though at this very moment some of you will be saying 
here is no life after marriage, this is simply an indicator that you are immersed in fear 
and your emotions are paralyzing you. 
I encourage you to work through this program and set yourself free 
from these paralyzing emotions so you can enjoy your life fully today, 
no matter where you happen to be at this moment in time or where it will lead you next year.
Nobody can rescue you, pluck you out of the fear, do the work to set you free of the fear... but you. 
In Project Discovery Program I even give you some tools to move beyond your fear 
so you can complete your goal and arrive at an informed decision. 

It is your responsibleness that has brought you here 
looking for clear answers and yes.... it takes courage to look at your marriage objectively. 
Doing so will bring you what you desire in the long run. 
It will empower you with awareness, little awakenings, different way of seeing you
and a marriage partner and you will know what you want less of in your life 
and what you want more of. 
No matter what decisions you make, once your discovery project has been completed,
your life will forever remain enriched in some way. 
It will make you more in personality, not less.

This maybe the best investment you will make for your peace of mind,
for increasing your happiness
and the rest of your life.