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Help! I am divorcing and I know zilch about divorce or how to guide the children through this ordeal so it doesn't wreck them or 
anything about that necessary co-parent relationship..or 
what I need to do next.
I need information PDQ!

You are not alone. Few parents experiencing divorce have the information required to 
facilitate their children's re-adjustment after a divorce. And if they do, too many times they are slowed down because they are going through their own emotional divorce process. 
So, while they are trying to keep their own heads above water, their planning for the kids gets put on hold. 
As common as divorce is, when it happens to you, you still never imagined it would ever be like this!

You need help, guidance, information and you need it now!
You want your many, many questions answered...

 I am planning a separation ..Should I tell the kids what is going on? 

We are planning to divorce. Is there something we can do so we do not hurt our children? 

We are separated and plan legal divorce, what can we do for the kids 
and how do we handle the teens? And on and on....



A Powerful Handbook for 
Divorcing Parents
Just like CPR is required
by those working with children.. so should this information 
be in the hands of every parent.. whether they are 
planning a divorce or have already divorced

A Powerful Handbook for Divorcing Parents  is a must read!

  • When divorce is imminent.
  • Before announcing your divorce to the children.
  • When you are contemplating a divorce.
  • When a divorce has just occurred.
  • When you want guidance to facilitate a healthy recovery for your children.
  • When you want help to make the other parent understand that the children come first.
  • When children will not accept the divorce.
  • When the children remain angry or depressed.
  • When you are planning scheduled visits.

  • A Powerful Handbook for Divorcing Parents
    provides you with answers, insight, plans, ideas, and suggestions to help you today
    in your divorced parent parental role. 
    It is for healthy readjustment for your children and your long-term relationship with them.
    This is a powerful book. It should be in the hands of every parent.. whether they are 
    planning a divorce or have already divorced and for people who want to understand 
    the single divorced parent unique life style.

    This  Handbook provides you with a plan for taking the kids out of the divorce debris.
    It suggests how to get things done quickly and easily.
    It is filled with ideas to apply to this moment in time of your life. 
    You use what you need and want, or let the ideas stimulate different ways
    for your own personal situation.
    It's contents empower you to quickly pluck your children out of the rubble 
    of your collapsed marriage today, rather 
    than letting them wander in its muck for many years to come...

    Handbook for Divorcing Parents  is not about child financial maintenance, 
    or money, or groceries, or courts, or attorneys or 
    letting someone else decide what is best for your kids or what is best for you. 
    It is not about waiting to see what the judge will say or about waiting for the courts to settle the child maintenance payment or when the money will kick in ...
    It is about putting the information in your hands so 
    you know how, what, when  and where to do immediately, as well as in the future 
    with your children, in your newly defined parental role. 

    Any information is always powerful... It can fuel you to action, making decisions, asking for what you want, rebuilding dreams to create the happiness you want, and to move you forward into the rest of your life...In this case to a positive relationship with your children, in spite of the divorce!.

    99% of parents love their children. 
    Their intentions always was to provide an intact family for their kids, 
    but sometimes that becomes impossible. 
    This does not mean you must not continue the dream of this intention for your children. 
    It now simply means that you alter what their family will look like.
    Instead of one family, they will now have the opportunity to have two families. 
    One with Dad and one with Mom.
    Let not your internal unhealed wounds drive you to abandon your children or hoard them 
    or give up on the dream you had for THEM.

    All your children want is
    for you to love and care for them.
    Divorce does not prevent you from doing that.

    All they want is to love you.
    They do not want to burden you with their own pains of their loss, because 
    they sense your emotional wounds during this difficult time... 
    They don't know how to "be" during these times, just like few parents know about
    emotional and legal divorce, how it impacts their children of all ages, what they can do 
    at this critical time to help everyone concerned, etc, etc..etcetera.
    Children just don't know what they are suppose to ask from their parents 
    to make themselves feel better emotionally. 
    You, parent, are the only one who can give them what they need 
    during their time of  grieving for the loss of their intact family. 
    You can give them what they need right now when you understand the process, 
    recognize the signs, and know what you can do....
    I have tried to provide this information in the Handbook for Divorcing Parents.



    How on earth do we negotiate about the kids when 
    we are so angry with each other?


    The Handbook offers easy and most do-able ways for parents to negotiate, even amidst your divorce feelings of anger and awful pains.
    There is a way that both parents can do what is best for the children immediately, 
    even when you don't have the energy to deal with anymore conflict right now.
    I promise you, that once you have the tools and do it, and get the kids on track, you will be much more energized and feel better. Your children will respond to life more positively..
    your relationship with them will be better.  They will feel more secure, wanted, and 
    secretly stop thinking that you will be divorcing them next. 
    The drain on the self esteem that happens during divorce will automatically now be gaining ...
    because you will know that you are doing what is right for your children..
    Your lives will begin healthy growth again. 

    Babies, kids and youth and even your adult children feel insecure during the turbulent times of divorce 
    and I offer you many suggestions to cushion the blow, to reassure them, to make the transition for them smoother, as well as yourself, to be okay, rather than growing 
    a pain that will gnaw at them for many years thereafter.

    You will never regret the extra effort you make today.
    At this point, dealing with your children is peanuts, as to compare with the results 
    of not dealing with their transition through divorce, right now.
    Left wandering in the debris...they will develop ways to get their needs for love and attention met.
    They will go about life unconsciously seeking to fill their internal emptiness and
    to soothe their internal divorce leftover pains. 
    How you handle them now can be very positive to their lives... positive indeed! 

    This is A Powerful Handbook for Divorcing Parents. It has an accumulation 
    of many years of information. It is geared to equip you with the information necessary 
    to understand what every child of divorce must go through 
    and what each parent can do to facilitate the child's recovery.
    It is a win-win for each parent 
    and each of their children.

    Would you like to put this Handbook 
    on your desktop right now? If so...

    Start right now by downloading this information.
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    How do I handle holidays, vacations, family gatherings, etc.?
    What signs do I watch for in the children to facilitate healthy recovery?
    How do I negotiate the kids at their other parents place and mine?
    These are just some of the questions answered in this Handbook. It strives to give information about most everything to do with "life" as a divorced parent, in their single parental role.
    I most especially want you to have the many different ways to negotiate with your co-parent 
    and if you don't want to look at her or his face right now...well there is a way
    that you can communicate during your negotiations so you get this task done,
    for it needs to be done.
    Inside of you, you do know that the kids need both parents. 
    Every minute children have a parent that has made no plan to see them regularly, 
    those kids are feeling anxiety.. Most unnecessary anxiety! 
    They are feeling very insecure now, because their intact family has tumble down 
    and has been shattered to pieces and they need to know, by parental action and routine, 
    that their parents care for them and will not abandon them...like their parents did to each other.


    And guess what? Now that you are planning on divorcing your spouse or have already divorced him or her you will now have a whole different and new kind of relationship to build together!

    Here are some FREE Pages for you TODAY
    ~For Parents of Divorce ~
    ...Suddenly you must form a brand new relationship with the person you are planning to divorce from or are in the midst of active divorcing from or you have already severed emotional relationship from. 
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    I wrote this jam packed, full of information, Handbook  for parents of divorce, in their 
    newly defined parental role. It is to offer suggestion to help you... coach you through your fears 
    and your difficult emotional times during divorce. It is to help you get done what will be good 
    for you and your kids today, and for the long run. 
    I honestly do not wish the pain of a broken relationship between a parent-child
    to happen to you or  anyone else, because that particular pain is more wretched 
    than the loss of a significant marriage. 
    It was personal experience taught me that me this and what motivated me to compile this book for you.

    Yet, I know that, right now, your paralyzing fear may cause you to sweep 
    all this under the rug, hoping that the chips falling haphazardly... maybe 
    just won't affect those kids too much.... 
    Wrong. It will!

    When you take charge now, your divorce will not be a long-term 
    lingering problem for them.... and for you.

    When your co-parent does not understand, what you are trying to accomplish, I suggest that you copy 
    the entire ebook and give it to her/him. 
    It will touch their heart and help you in your quest to do the best for your children. Their other parent will better understand what you are trying to do, 
    rather than butt heads with you all the way.

    Let not your fear of having to communicate with your ex prevent you from getting this information. One of the  suggestions I have included requires absolutely no face to face contact while in negotiations, if that is how you want to do it.
    Over a hundred pages of information 
    for effective results.
    A  lifeline for parents of divorce.

    Many parents who are behaving irrationally, at the time of divorce, is rarely because they are clean in their brain. All addictions affect the brain. All the substances or obsessions always takes priority over everything, including their children. 
    Yet amidst their dis'eased brain, they most often, 
    still do want to do right for their kids, 
    but their addiction control's them. 
    You may not even know that their bizarre behaviors 
    are caused by the mood altering substances. 
    But be aware that whether they are under the influence or not, they will practice the controlling and 
    irresponsible behaviors of an addict.. 
    No matter.... The clean-brained spouse can still involve the other parent for the sake of the children. 
    I have included information for both of you who find yourselves in this situation.

    Handbook for Divorcing Parents is to empower you in your role of co-parent and your parental relationship with your children of all ages, today and in your long future together. 
    Divorce has taken place. It is a fact and now life is lived in a slightly different way.
    Every parent of divorce will find this handbook to be invaluable to their situation, 
    whether it is to do with the children, their other parent, the grandparents, new lovers,
    step parents, marriage of your children, or anything to do with that slightly different way.

    Children are resilient, and 
    if considered during this process, they will adjust.
    Everyone can come out of this divorce stronger, because of the experience,
    rather than be diminished because of the fallout of your divorce.

    A Powerful Handbook for Divorcing Parents is an accumulation 
    of many years of information. It is geared to equip you
    with the information necessary to understand what every child of 
    divorce must go through  and what each parent can do 
    to facilitate the child's recovery. It will also help you, 
    as you go through your own re-adjustment process, as well. 

    I guarantee you that this handbook will not disappoint you.
    Should your E-BooK require repair 
    I guarantee to replace it promptly up to 56 days after purchase

     It is a  handbook that will enrich
    your relationship with each of your children 
    for the rest of your lives together.

    You will never be sorry you invested your time and money in it.
    I promise you this information will last you the lifetime you have with your children.
    I urge you to read the information and then
    decide what you will do with it.
    I guarantee you that it will not disappoint you.
    Download the entire book, read the free read and when you want to unlock all of the pages you may purchase its unlock key by simply connecting to the internet, click on the key and follow the procedure.

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    After a successful download click on Purchase UNLOCK KEY.
    Ebook must be successfully downloaded to your computer before ordering. 
    The Unlock Key gives you immediate and full access to the entire downloaded ebook, permanently.
    When you no longer want it. simply put it in your computer thrash can. It is that simple.

    (Please understand that this special price of $28.95 is for a limited time only, and WILL increase after this special ends) 

    I give you permission to print this © ebook and give it to your children's other parent!
     
     
     
     



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    Personal Life Coach
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