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Help! I am divorcing and I
know zilch about divorce or how to guide the children through this ordeal
so it doesn't wreck them or
anything about that necessary
co-parent relationship..or
what I need to do next.
I need information PDQ!
You are not alone. Few parents experiencing divorce
have the information required to
facilitate their children's re-adjustment after
a divorce. And if they do, too many times they are slowed down because
they are going through their own emotional divorce process.
So, while they are trying to keep their own heads
above water, their planning for the kids gets put on hold.
As common as divorce is, when it happens to you,
you still never imagined it would ever be like this!
You need help, guidance, information and you need
it now!
You want your many, many questions answered...
I am planning a separation
..Should I tell the kids what is going on?
We are planning to divorce. Is there
something we can do so we do not hurt our children?
We are separated and plan legal
divorce, what can we do for the kids
and how do we handle the teens?
And on and on....
A Powerful
Handbook for
Divorcing
Parents
Just like CPR is required
by those working with children.. so should this
information
be in the hands of every parent.. whether they
are
planning a divorce or have already divorced
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A Powerful Handbook for
Divorcing Parents is a must
read!
When divorce is imminent.
Before announcing your divorce to the children.
When you are contemplating a divorce.
When a divorce has just occurred.
When you want guidance to facilitate a healthy recovery
for your children.
When you want help to make the other parent understand
that the children come first.
When children will not accept the divorce.
When the children remain angry or depressed.
When you are planning scheduled visits.
A Powerful Handbook for
Divorcing Parents
provides you with answers, insight, plans, ideas,
and suggestions to help you today
in your divorced parent parental role.
It is for healthy readjustment for your children
and your long-term relationship with them.
This is a powerful book. It should be in
the hands of every parent.. whether they are
planning a divorce or have already divorced and
for people who want to understand
the single divorced parent unique life style.
This Handbook provides you
with a plan for taking the kids out of the divorce debris.
It suggests how to get things done quickly and
easily.
It is filled with ideas to apply to this moment
in time of your life.
You use what you need and want, or let the ideas
stimulate different ways
for your own personal situation.
It's contents empower you to quickly pluck your
children out of the rubble
of your collapsed marriage today, rather
than letting them wander in its muck for many
years to come...
Handbook for Divorcing Parents is
not about child financial maintenance,
or money, or groceries, or courts, or attorneys
or
letting someone else decide what is best for
your kids or what is best for you.
It is not about waiting to see what the judge
will say or about waiting for the courts to settle the child maintenance
payment or when the money will kick in ...
It is about putting the information in your hands
so
you know how, what, when and where to do
immediately, as well as in the future
with your children, in your newly defined parental
role.
Any information is always powerful... It can fuel
you to action, making decisions, asking for what you want, rebuilding dreams
to create the happiness you want, and to move you forward into the rest
of your life...In this case to a positive relationship with your children,
in spite of the divorce!.
99% of parents love their children.
Their intentions always was to provide an intact
family for their kids,
but sometimes that becomes impossible.
This does not mean you must not continue the
dream of this intention for your children.
It now simply means that you alter what their
family will look like.
Instead of one family, they will now have the
opportunity to have two families.
One with Dad and one with Mom.
Let not your internal unhealed wounds drive you
to abandon your children or hoard them
or give up on the dream you had for THEM.
All your children want is
for you to love and care for them.
Divorce does not prevent you from
doing that.
All they want is to love you.
They do not want to burden you with their own
pains of their loss, because
they sense your emotional wounds during this
difficult time...
They don't know how to "be" during these times,
just like few parents know about
emotional and legal divorce, how it impacts their
children of all ages, what they can do
at this critical time to help everyone concerned,
etc, etc..etcetera.
Children just don't know what they are suppose
to ask from their parents
to make themselves feel better emotionally.
You, parent, are the only one who can give them
what they need
during their time of grieving for the loss
of their intact family.
You can give them what they need right now when
you understand the process,
recognize the signs, and know what you can do....
I have tried to provide this information in the
Handbook
for Divorcing Parents.
How on earth do we negotiate about
the kids when
we are so angry with each other?
The Handbook offers easy and most do-able ways
for parents to negotiate, even amidst your divorce feelings of anger and
awful pains.
There is a way that both parents can do what
is best for the children immediately,
even when you don't have the energy to deal with
anymore conflict right now.
I promise you, that once you have the tools and
do it, and get the kids on track, you will be much more energized and feel
better. Your children will respond to life more positively..
your relationship with them will be better.
They will feel more secure, wanted, and
secretly stop thinking that you will be divorcing
them next.
The drain on the self esteem that happens during
divorce will automatically now be gaining ...
because you will know that you are doing what
is right for your children..
Your lives will begin healthy growth again.
Babies, kids and youth and even your adult children
feel insecure during the turbulent times of divorce
and I offer you many suggestions to cushion the
blow, to reassure them, to make the transition for them smoother, as well
as yourself, to be okay, rather than growing
a pain that will gnaw at them for many years
thereafter.
You will never regret the extra effort you make
today.
At this point, dealing with your children is
peanuts, as to compare with the results
of not dealing with their transition through
divorce, right now.
Left wandering in the debris...they will develop
ways to get their needs for love and attention met.
They will go about life unconsciously seeking
to fill their internal emptiness and
to soothe their internal divorce leftover pains.
How you handle them now can be very positive
to their lives... positive indeed!
This is A Powerful Handbook for Divorcing Parents.
It has an accumulation
of many years of information. It is geared to
equip you with the information necessary
to understand what every child of divorce must
go through
and what each parent can do to facilitate the
child's recovery.
It is a win-win for each parent
and each of their children.
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How do I handle holidays, vacations,
family gatherings, etc.?
What signs do I watch for in the
children to facilitate healthy recovery?
How do I negotiate the kids at
their other parents place and mine?
These are just some of the questions answered
in this Handbook. It strives to give information about most everything
to do with "life" as a divorced parent, in their single parental role.
I most especially want you to have the many different
ways to negotiate with your co-parent
and if you don't want to look at her or his face
right now...well there is a way
that you can communicate during your negotiations
so you get this task done,
for it needs to be done.
Inside of you, you do know that the kids need
both parents.
Every minute children have a parent that has
made no plan to see them regularly,
those kids are feeling anxiety.. Most unnecessary
anxiety!
They are feeling very insecure now, because their
intact family has tumble down
and has been shattered to pieces and they need
to know, by parental action and routine,
that their parents care for them and will not
abandon them...like their parents did to each other.
And guess what? Now that you are planning on divorcing
your spouse or have already divorced him or her you will now have a whole
different and new kind of relationship to build together!
Here are some FREE
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~For
Parents of Divorce ~
...Suddenly
you must form a brand new relationship with the person you are planning
to divorce from or are in the midst of active divorcing from or
you have already severed emotional relationship from.
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I wrote this jam packed, full of information,
Handbook for parents of divorce, in their
newly defined parental role. It is to offer suggestion
to help you... coach you through your fears
and your difficult emotional times during divorce.
It is to help you get done what will be good
for you and your kids today, and for the long
run.
I honestly do not wish the pain of a broken relationship
between a parent-child
to happen to you or anyone else, because
that particular pain is more wretched
than the loss of a significant marriage.
It was personal experience taught me that me
this and what motivated me to compile this book for you.
Yet, I know that, right now, your paralyzing fear
may cause you to sweep
all this under the rug, hoping that the chips
falling haphazardly... maybe
just won't affect those kids too much....
Wrong. It will!
When you take charge now, your divorce will not
be a long-term
lingering problem for them.... and for you.
When your co-parent does not understand, what you
are trying to accomplish, I suggest that you copy
the entire ebook and give it to her/him.
It will touch their heart and help you in your quest
to do the best for your children. Their other parent will better understand
what you are trying to do,
rather than butt heads with you all the way.
Let not your fear of having
to communicate with your ex prevent you from getting this information.
One of the suggestions I have included requires absolutely no face
to face contact while in negotiations, if that is how you want to do it.
Over a hundred pages of information
for effective results.
A lifeline for parents
of divorce.
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Many parents who are behaving irrationally, at the
time of divorce, is rarely because they are clean in their brain. All addictions
affect the brain. All the substances or obsessions always takes priority
over everything, including their children.
Yet amidst their dis'eased brain, they most often,
still do want to do right for their kids,
but their addiction control's them.
You may not even know that their bizarre behaviors
are caused by the mood altering substances.
But be aware that whether they are under the influence
or not, they will practice the controlling and
irresponsible behaviors of an addict..
No matter.... The clean-brained spouse can still involve
the other parent for the sake of the children.
I have included information for both of you who find
yourselves in this situation.
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Handbook for Divorcing Parents is
to empower you in your role of co-parent and your parental relationship
with your children of all ages, today and in your long future together.
Divorce has taken place. It is a fact and now life is lived in a slightly
different way.
Every parent of divorce will find this handbook
to be invaluable to their situation,
whether it is to do with the children, their
other parent, the grandparents, new lovers,
step parents, marriage of your children, or anything
to do with that slightly different way.
Children are resilient, and
if considered during this process, they will
adjust.
Everyone can come out of this divorce
stronger, because of the experience,
rather than be diminished because
of the fallout of your divorce.
A Powerful Handbook for Divorcing Parents
is
an accumulation
of many years of information. It is geared to
equip you
with the information necessary to understand
what every child of
divorce must go through and what each parent
can do
to facilitate the child's recovery. It will also
help you,
as you go through your own re-adjustment process,
as well.
I guarantee you that this handbook will not disappoint you.
Should
your E-BooK require repair
I
guarantee to replace it promptly up to 56 days after purchase.
It
is a handbook that will enrich
your relationship with each
of your children
for the rest of your lives
together.
You will never be sorry you invested your time
and money in it.
I promise you this information will last you
the lifetime you have with your children.
I urge you to read the information and then
decide what you will do with it.
I guarantee you that it will not disappoint you.
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